Affirming

Emily’s Weekday Wonderings – An Affirming Congregation

On Sunday, Leaside celebrated two years as an affirming congregation. We had the opportunity to think about the question “What does it mean for you to be a part of an affirming congregation?”Affirm United/S’affirmer Ensemble  is the organization within the church that recognizes affirming ministries. In order to be recognized as an affirming ministry, it is necessary to take part in an intentional learning and discussion process, to create affirming policies, and to publically celebrate being affirming. As Leaside United Church, we recognize that being affirming  is not a one time decision, but an ongoing process. Since becoming an affirming congregation, we have invited guest speakers, had a movie night, and ran a Question Box to continue our ongoing education. We also have rainbow flags visible on our outdoor sign, our website and social media, our bulletin, and in our sanctuary.

As of the end of 2017, there were 199 affirming ministries, with another 120 ministries in the affirming process. There are currently approximately 3000 ministries in the United Church of Canada. The number of new affirming ministries has been increasing year by year. In 2007, there were 39 affirming ministries total (31 of them congregations). 2016 – the year that Leaside United Church became an affirming ministry – saw 26 new ministries. 2017 had 35 new affirming ministries. According to the listof affirming ministries on the Affirm United/S’affirmer Ensemble website, Leaside is one of 19 affirming congregations in Toronto.

Celebrating Two Years as an Affirming Congregation!


This Sunday we have the opportunity to celebrate two years as an officially welcoming and affirming congregation. Some of you might wonder whether this matters, and I’m sure for some people it does not have a direct impact. We have, however, had more than one couple reach out to our congregation interested in marriage specifically because of our affirming status. Our congregation offered a space that was safe, or that fit with their own personal values and the ones they wanted associated with their marriage.

Being an affirming congregation is an intentional welcome to everyone who is a part of the LGTBQ+ community, and this matters because the church has a long history (and in many places not just history) of excluding and condemning people for their sexual orientation or gender identity. Given this context, we can’t expect anyone who isn’t part of our community already to know that we would not be the same – unless we tell them directly. And, whether or not we ourselves or people we know are a part of the LGTBQ+ community, being an affirming congregation means that we are ourselves working to become an instance of sacred community, a place where the divine in all people is not just permitted but embraced.

That’s my sermon, because on Sunday you won’t be hearing me preach! Instead, we’ll hear people from our congregation responding to the question: “What does it mean for you to be part of an affirming congregation?” I look forward to hearing the short reflections along with you.

With many blessings, Rev. Emily Gordon

Good Morning Sunday April 15th 8:30am – Special Notice

Special Notice:

 

Good Morning!

Worship Service will be held this morning at 10:30am at Leaside United Church.

However, we encourage people to stay home and stay safe in this weather. Please use your best judgement in deciding whether to come to church or not.

If you can come safely we will be glad to see you, if you are more comfortable staying at home in this icy weather that is good too.

Take care,
Rev. Emily Gordon

Soup, Salad and Song!

The Abundant Hospitality Committee invites you to “Soup, Salad and Song” on Sunday, April 22nd from 12:00-2:00pm in the Gymnasium.

Come and enjoy homemade soup, great music and good fellowship.  Featuring the musical talents of Martin and Frank (of Give & Go Beatle Ballads) and Miss Lily opening with acoustic guitar.

Free will offering at the door.  Leaside United Church, 822 Millwood Road, East York (416) 425-1253 | www.leasideunited.org

All Welcome!